Blog - ChicagoEFT
“Love, Attachment, and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), with Dr. Cindy Goodness Zane” (Episode 8 of Mind Tricks Radio)
EFT trainer Dr. Cindy Goodness Zane, who will be facilitating at Chicago EFT’s upcoming Externship in June 2026, is interviewed about EFT with individuals, couples, and families. She explains th...
“When Guilt and Shame are Good Signs in EFT Therapy” (EFT Cafe with Kathryn Rheem and Jennifer Olden)
Kathryn and Jennifer discuss how to work with couples’ intense guilt and shame, particularly in affair/betrayal recovery work, in this short clip. These feelings are very often triggered when th...
Mapping the Positive Cycle in EFT with Dr. Sandra Taylor (We Heart Therapy podcast)
We Heart Therapy podcast guest Dr. Sandra Taylor and host Dr. Anabelle Bugatti give clinicians guidance on how to map out clients’ positive cycle. So often in EFT, we talk about couples’ n...
The Sacred Mess of Becoming: Finding Beauty in Impermanence with Brandon Liu, LMFT on Deconstructing Therapy podcast
ChicagoEFT’s own Brandon Liu, LMFT is interviewed by Deconstructing Therapy podcast host Alefyah Taqui. How exciting to hear from one of our community members! Brandon and Alefyah share a rich c...
Being Present Can Be Hard: Attention Regulation and its Impact on Relationships
This blog post by Kerrin Van Der Kruk, EFT therapist, addresses how attention and the lack thereof can impact relationships from an attachment perspective. She highlights in particular how ADHD-impact...
Deconstructing Therapy podcast Season 2 Episode 5: “Safety Is Not a Feeling: Power, Privilege, and Listening Deeply” with guest Jay M. Seiff-Haron, PsyD
In this Deconstructing Therapy podcast episode, podcast host Alefyah Taqui has an honest conversation with EFT therapist Jay Seiff-Haron, PsyD, about letting our clients challenge our worldview, espec...
What are attachment wounds and how do they heal?
Psychoeducational Instagram post by Julie Menanno (@thesecurerelationship) defining attachment wounds and how couples work through them. This could be a helpful resource to share with clients who are ...
Understanding Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Strategies – Melissa Divaris Thompson (Instagram handle @embracingjoypsychotherapy)
Check out these two videos by Melissa Divaris Thompson, LMFT, who speaks from the point of view of people who tend to use anxious and avoidant attachment strategies. In the video linked below, Melissa...
Keeping Focus in Blocked EFT Sessions: EFT Cafe with Kathryn Rheem and Jennifer Olden
Kathryn and Jennifer talk about how to stay focused when our clients are blocked or defensive in session. They define what a block is, why it’s there, what it can look like in session, and they ...
How to Make a Repair After a Conflict – Julie Menanno (Instagram handle @thesecurerelationship)
Instagram infographic by Julie Menanno (@thesecurerelationship) that provides a step-by-step guide for couples to come back together after a conflict without pretending it didn’t happen or hurt....